Are you looking for signs a married woman likes you? Romello Mack shares four signs that a married woman will reveal that’ll show you that she likes you.
Reading a woman’s signals can be quite a challenge. The challenge becomes even more difficult if that woman is married. I can share with you tips on how to impress a married woman but understand that a married woman who cares a great deal about her personal image and the appearance of her marriage will be very careful about how she interacts with men.
The first step on how to seduce a married woman is to become a master at reading signals. Just think back to the days when you were a kid and you looked for signs that a girl likes you. Well, the same thing applies now that you’re a man and you think a married woman has her eyes on you.
A married woman will be very conscious of the signals that she’s sending to men. She might like you and she wants you to know it, but she doesn’t want to be exposed. Understanding body language of women interested is important. So, how will you know if a married woman likes you?
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Here are four signs that a married woman is interested in you:
1. Her eye contact and body language
In my dating guide I write about how a woman’s eye contact and body language will “tell her story”. Women are great communicators through eye contact and body language and married women are masters at it. A married woman will use great caution when she’s around men but if you pay close attention, you will clearly understand the message that she’s sending.
Allow me to give you some quick examples:
When a married woman consistently gives you prolonged eye contact and you find yourself looking away before she does, this is a sign that she may be interested in you. It can hard to tell from an one-time encounter if her eye contact means she likes you, but if you see this married woman often and she uses the same playbook with her contact, then it’s a good chance that she likes you.
Body language is another sign that a married woman likes you. She will use her body language in a seductive way in order to grab your attention and to turn you on. She will do all of this is in subtle ways. It may be the way she walks or the way she sits in her chair, or the way she twirls her feet or wiggle her toes. It could be the way she puts her hands on her hips. She may use her body language while having a conversation directly with your or her body language may be directed toward you while you socializes with others across the room.
It’s important to keep in mind that a married woman will often use eye contact and body language to attract men while she’s with her husband! This is a dangerous game but it’s one that is being played all of the time.
2. She initiates contact with you
Many married women will try to minimize their contact with men in order to project the “right” image as a “good” wife. If a married woman appears to be seeking out interaction with you there’s a reason why this is so. Of course, there could be various reasons why a married woman may initiate contact with you and it may have nothing to do with sexual attraction. For example, your married co-worker may initiate contact with you because it’s apart of her job!
But it’s not too tough to tell if a married woman seems to be looking for any and every opportunity to interact with you. It’s not just the frequency of contact that you should make note of. You should also pay attention to the way she interacts with you – does she seem to stay a little longer than necessary in attempts to keep the conversation going?
Let’s continue with the married co-worker as an example. I was interested in a married co-worker but I hadn’t made my move yet. We talked, quite often, but honestly, I lacked the confidence to pursue her, mainly because I couldn’t get a good read on whether she was really into me or not or just being a very friendly woman. It was my friend, our co-worker, who pulled me to the side one day and let me know that the married woman was “feeling me” (liked me). She never told him that, he just saw the signs; signs that I would too unsure of.
When you think no one is watching, everyone is watching. I was thinking too much and not just going with the flow but my friend (along with other co-workers; both males and females) could see that the married woman was going out of her way to interact with me and she was giving me subtle signals (that I kept missing over and over again) that she was interested in me.
Because others are standing at a distance they can see what you may be unable to see because you’re too close to the action. That might not make sense to you now, but here’s what you should do: Bring along someone you trust around the married woman and make sure not to tell him or her that you’re interested in her or that you think she may be interested in you. If this trusted someone is a female friend – even better. The judgment of a female about another female is highly credible – plus, having a female friend around may bring about flashes of jealousy in the married woman, which is a sure sign that the married woman likes you.
4. She shows a different side of herself when she’s around you
A married woman will put forth a certain image in the eyes of others but that doesn’t mean that what you see is the real her. If a married woman likes you she’s likely to reveal to you parts of her personality that you and others never knew existed. Maybe she projects a conservative image yet when she’s around you she loosens up. Maybe she’s known as a loud, outgoing type but when she’s around you she comes across quiet, even shy as if she’s a little nervous around you. I’ve seen loud and outgoing women, whether single or married, become soft spoken and shy, preferring privacy over partying when in the presence of the right guy.
If a married woman seems to be “comfortable out of her comfort zone” when she’s around you, that’s a sign that she likes you. You bring out something in her that she doesn’t feel comfortable revealing to others yet she feels completely safe being whoever she is (or who she wants to be) around you. For most married women having affairs is “out of character” but your presence brings out a side of her and her relatives, friends, colleagues, etc. and maybe even she – herself – never knew existed.
In closing, there are other signs a married woman likes you; some will be too obvious to miss while others will take a greater level of focus on your part. But once you’re able to accurately read the signs; able to understand body language of women interested in you – then you must know how to seduce a married woman